I just have to vent a little today this last week I have felt so overwhelmed. And in all honesty I would have thought that it would be the total oppoisite since we FIANLLY closed on our house last week. I think I am just getting cabin fever and I need the warm weather to get here fast so I can get outside. But all week I have been thinking about the way things use to be.. I miss having friends that I could go out and do things with. (Dont get me wrong I love being married) But I miss going out to dinner, going to the movies, roasting marshmallows, staying up all night talking and laughing till your stomach hurts so bad, going to CSI basketball games. I miss having my girlfriend's around. I miss having them there and being able to tell them everything. Being able to laugh and the next minute be crying cause we can just pour our hearts out to each other and then the next thing you know your laughing again. There is just something about having your girlfriends there and being able to relate to one another. I know I am probably sounding all crazy and many of you who will read this will probably think I am crazy. But it is truly something I MISS terribly. Its crazy how life takes us all in different directions. I always told myself that these girls would be my friends forever and there are some that I havent talked to in a very long time. Some dont even live that far away and life still finds a way to keep us all busy.
I just hope and pray that those friends realize how much that have influenced my life. I am so grateful to have had them in my life and for the fun times we shared.
2017 Summer swimming!!
8 years ago
I could use some warm weather as well! I get this feeing your explaining every once in awhile too! Good Friends mean everything! I don't think you sound crazy at all! Juat start painting that house and you will find yourself WAY to busy to even have friends ;)...Love ya and I will come help if you want and we can reminease over the "good ol days".
ReplyDeleteTana, This is true. Friends come and go, BUT best friends are always there. They are the kind of friends that you can go forever without talking to them and you just pick up where you left off. I feel your pain...getting married was the best thing that I ever did, but it seems that when you get married there is a plague that comes over you and people think that you don't need friends anymore. Ha! Well having girlfriends are just what you said...so important! I have felt this same way at times moving to Pocatello and Calvin being in night classes. "I don't have any friends, what do I do with my time? etc.. etc.. I decided to start finding a class to go to, or working out, or trying something new. You know that we will always be the best of friends and you can call me anytime. Just do it!! I love you Tana! Don't let the adversary get you down! Get busy! Invite people over to your new house, sew sew sew, adopt a new hobby, call Kalissa:). You will find that you have more girlfriends than you know. Keep smiling and know that this is only temporary and it won't last forever.
ReplyDeleteTHANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH... I AM TRULY BLESSED TO HAVE BOTH YOU GUYS IN MY LIFE AND TO BE ABLE TO SAY YOUR MY FRIENDS.
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